martyred

1. ADJ If you describe a person or their behaviour as martyred, you mean that they often exaggerate their suffering in order to gain sympathy or praise. (為博同情或贊賞而)假裝可憐的[文學性] [ADJ n]

"As usual," muttered his martyred wife. “老樣子唄，”他那故作可憐的妻子嘟囔道。

You put on your martyred expression, sigh and say, "If you really, really want to..."

你擺出一副可憐相，嘆息道：“如果你真想要...”